Sex involves two people who want the same thing, an orgasm. This is the simplest form of sex. It also comes with baggage, emotional baggage. This involves attachment, love, and jealousy. With such strong feelings attached to sex, why do some of us kids take it so lightly?
Perhaps it is this idea of college that drives some of us away from tradition and onto the other side of the teeterboard. The idea that we are supposed to be free and uninhibited has spurred single lifestyles that seem very unorthodox to our parents. Maybe this is the right way to go. Or possibly we are leaning too far to one side of this wobbly board that eventually we will drop off into disaster.
In case you were wondering, I did not sleep with that guy (I'm not into drunken sailors). But I have experienced both sides of the teeterboard. Each side has their good and bad points. In this safe haven called college, we are allowed to experiment with little consequence (excluding STDs). Dating might have one foot out the door, and "just sex" has one foot in. Nevertheless, I don't think dating is dead for all, possibly just hibernating until senior year.
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